talk shit, get hit

I'm making an honest attempt to stop talking shit behind people's backs. All it does is come back to bite you. It causes more problems that could easily be solved by just telling the other person or people what you're thinking. It's so hard to say way you mean sometimes. And I know that, I've had issues with that, and it's gotten me nowhere. So, fuck it. I am done. I just wish everyone around me would stop telling me about their beef with everyone else. You can't change things unless you talk to the person.